As for the reason why I gave up, it was because my reason was eroded by my love for him. I finally fell in love with someone I shouldn't love. And what's more, he doesn't love me at all. It's not his fault, because when we decided to be a casual accountant, we knew that the relationship was just about sex. That is to say, I did something I shouldn't have done. To be honest, my recovery from this adult affair dating relationship is much harder and longer than any other relationship. I still have a long way to go to become the first me.
Although the NSA relationship is full of uncertainty, it can bring people what they want, that is, sex, which is undeniable. But as a result of the finder, you need to know that this kind of feelings cannot be maintained for a long time. It can only satisfy your sexual desire temporarily. When you realize that this NSA relationship has become different, you will leave the wrong person as soon as possible with the last unhappy. Only in this way can we minimize the possible damage.
Do you know why many NSA relationships end up in pain or failure? That's because communication is the key if you want both to feel relaxed in this relationship. You two should have an in-depth discussion on the border issue, what you should do, what you want to do and what you should avoid. For many of the causal enumerator, it seems to violate the principle of NSA relationship to discuss this issue, that is, only play does not work. If one of them doesn't agree with this, the other will be considered mad.
Another reason why it's hard for people to communicate on this issue is that a lot of ad fault finders don't do such things because they don't want to reveal too much about their own heart to their own FWB. In other words, they are afraid that the other side doesn't want to do such a thing, so that he is regarded as a madman by the other side. All of these may cause two people in the FWB relationship not to discuss boundary issues. Then the result is that the relationship is likely to end in failure.
After you read this article, you may know it is hard to maintain a healthy NSA relationship and you are likely to be hurt in such a causal relationship. Thus, you need to think twice before you join in this FWB relationship to avoid being hurt.